The form of dating in Japan has changed dramatically over time. In the past, “omiai” (arranged meetings) mediated by family members or close relatives were the primary meeting place, but today, matching applications and online dating have become more familiar to the information society and are especially popular among the younger generation. This article focuses on the transition of Japanese dating and examines its social background and impact.
The Root Layer of the Omiai Culture
Historically, Japanese “matchmaking” culture has been an experience connected to “life stages” such as university enrollment and salary positions. At a time when the concept of family lineage was emphasized, the family was the basic unit of society, and marriage was considered as part of decision-making that prioritized the interests of the family rather than as an individual choice.
Intermediaries were often family members or close relatives, and through face-to-face discussions and opportunities to actually meet and play together, a relationship was established on the premise of marriage. While this guaranteed stability in community and society, it also limited individual freedom of choice.
The Development of Matching Apps and Personalization
As time progressed, the development of the information society led to a diversification of ways to meet people. The popularity of matching apps, in particular, was a prize for change, providing a place for personalized encounters.
Matching app users are able to find partners that match their interests and values. Freed from the social constraints of the past, the free will of the individual is now being questioned.
Especially after Coronidae, the process of building a trusting relationship online without having to meet the other person in person became widespread, and this has become the standard for dating today.
Significance of Matching Apps for Japanese
In Japan, matching apps have changed from a “meeting place” like a coffee shop to a “homemade tool” that can be used according to the rhythm of an individual’s life. This change also has the effect of reducing the load on my time and personal information, and is widely accepted as a way to find a compatible partner in a short time.
In addition, there is a strong tendency among Japanese to value “detailed information about the other person,” and the security of profile influx on applications is said to be higher than in other countries.
Conclusion
The Japanese dating culture, which began with omiai, has become increasingly customized and personalized over time. Matching apps can be said to be localized around the unique needs and ethics of the Japanese, while supporting individual freedom of choice. This is an important clue for future relationships, and further development is expected to keep pace with the times.
